"The Union of Man and Woman is like the Mating of Heaven and Earth. It is because of their Correct Mating that Heaven and Earth last Forever. Human's have Lost this Secret and have therefore become Mortal. By Knowing it, the Path to Immortality is Opened." (Ancient Future pg 97)
All too often I hear the exact same approach to issues, theories, challenges, and solutions to the problems we encounter in relationships with our significant other. This is not to say these "approaches" have no validity but their ability to problem solve is anemic at best! Why? Because they are totally incomplete without factoring in the sexual-alchemical dynamics whose absence in our intimate relationships actually create the Bio-Emotional, Bio-Energetic and Physiological factors, we are so often challenged with IN relationship. On the masculine side, the role that men play in sustaining a nurturing, loving, giving, passionate and harmonious state of togetherness is challenged from the onset. Why? One simple physiological hiccup that tears asunder brick by brick the foundation of what once appeared as the ideal union of two people---EJACULATION!
Men feel they "need" to do it and women want men to do it for various reasons...from giving the ultimate Love embrace and satisfaction to Ego centered control and a manipulation of power & purpose. So let me break this down in a way that everyone can grasp it and maybe walk away with a new and inspiring revelation. First Ejaculation and Orgasm in a man are TWO different physiological functions. In the sexual practices such as the Tao in China, Tantra and Kama Sutra in India, and Kerazza in West Asia men learn practices to control for protracted periods of time or do away with their ejaculation yet maintain the orgasmic response. Why? Because the Loss of this Life Force energy and the physical "seed" leads one to accelerated Demise. One ejaculation is equivalent of energy loss as 72 hrs of hard physical labor. Most Women know this because as soon as their man "Kums" there is the Oh GAWD!! exclamation which is promptly followed with the ZZZZZZZZZZZ as they roll over much to your dismay and pass the F--- OUT! How much life is actually lost...can that really be measured? Sperm cells are a pure life based entity...they impart and help to create the very process of propagation. Each time a man ejaculates he releases between 200,000,000 to 500,000,000 sperm cells from his body. The average male has about 5000 ejaculations in a lifetime which is equal to 5 gallons of semen! Yeah, ya'll have seen those big 5 gallon water bottle containers...visualize! And since semen is a highly refined form of energy/life-force, ordinary food cannot replenish it efficiently. Therefore each loss of semen weakens the mind/body permanently. The structure of semen and Brain tissue are similar, so when one ejaculates excessively, the extra needed energy is taken from the brain. So in essence excess expenditure of seminal fluid leads to premature aging, lost energy, physical weakness, debilitation, illness, emotional instability...yeah, that's right AND eventual agonizing death as you navigate through a myriad of physical and mental disorders.
Now, HOW does this impact relationship pray tell? Here is the SECRET very few know. Ironically the constant loss of life fluid will inevitably lead to an unconscious disdain and emotional anger towards the very woman with whom he associates. Each time he ejaculates he lessens or diminishes the inherent "magnetism" in his body. The "magnetism" is what creates the dynamic Law of Attraction between himself and his mate...not to mention his ability to attract abundance into his life. The more of his life-force he loses, the more his magnetism decreases, the more his magnetism decreases, the less attraction AND the less PASSION he has for his significant other....not to mention that now ANOTHER factor seeps in, which is the Body's awareness via its OWN intelligence that this person that he is giving his life force to is killing IT and IT AIN'T feeling that for one second! This very real process will eventually create the man distancing himself from his woman, not being nurturing nor feeling connected to her any longer and all the while she is wondering what the HELL has happened??!! WHAT did I DO??!! Why don;t you love me anymore??!! I DO LOVE U! You don't ACT like you DO!! I Do...I just feel different that's all...and it goes on and on...so the very aspects in relationship that will eventually lead to its Demise have its Genesis here. And from here everything else Follows...now his eyes have wandered and he is looking elsewhere....
"With no aspirations of Fame or Greatness I am truly content. I am a True Man living among countless confused mortals...indeed it is so rare to meet a true Immortal...We do not abstain from the pleasures and Joys of Life, just from the worlds turmoil which withers man's spirit into Dust...I can Count the Immortal Dragons on my hands, so few there really are. Do not listen to the dictates of mortal men. Leap upon this Dragon and become a True Man a Superior Man." Peace OUT!
Wayne B Chandler